Hello there!Sometimes life has its awkward moments, and this is one of them. It’s interesting how much one must think when they try to really describe one’s self when they want to make a good first impression and only have a few minutes to grasp the other person’s attention and interest. But I like to jump in the water and swim! I'm one of those easygoing men who enjoy living and life itself. I've seen both the good and the bad and I have learned to appreciate all life has to offer, because it's such a special gift. I'm not the type to get caught up in irrelevancy or trivialities and I appreciate true meaning. This doesn't mean that I don't love to have fun, and I think I have a fun-loving part of me that must always be satisfied. I also appreciate balance, peace and harmony. These are qualities I look for in others, both friends and more. I hope you see like this, too.
You know, I really appreciate beauty and aesthetic and look for it to the best of my abilities - especially feminine beauty and sensuality. Might I say the women are the most beautiful of all!
More about me...I love to go on adventures and enjoy physical fitness, nutrition and keep myself quite healthy. Everyone says I look a lot younger than I am (quite possibly, I'm being flattered!)...I like to say that I'm 27 for the 14th time! Indeed, I love to keep a youthful spirit. A healthy lifestyle doesn't hurt, either . I also enjoy music and concerts. I'm a musician (drums – alternate rock, fusion and progressive metal) and appreciate many types of music. I also consider myself to be a rational thinker and I keep tight reigns on my impulsive side. I tend to be quite passionate in everything I do and I take great pride in reaching a successful outcome in my commitments. I have won big and lost big, been rich and been broke (broke again), and as a result of the experiences that come with both of those places, I look things a bit differently than most people.
I also consider myself to be a respectful, attentive, dedicated, focused, honorable gentleman. I'm not arrogant or cocky and I am not motivated by immature urges. I like to think that I have been fortunate to have experienced uncomfortable circumstances so I could sort out what's truly important and what is nonsense. The positives are mainly honesty, loyalty, love and peace. So much!
I'm hoping that you've read this far because this is where I get to talk about you. I'm hoping that you are introspective, thoughtful and, forgive me for sounding corny, snuggly. I also am hoping that you are confident and have an independent spirit. I think you'd agree that it's a bit difficult to articulate a list of options like we do when buying a car “she's got to have a/c, power windows, etc.” Really, I'm impressed by a positive attitude more than anything else. I believe that this is our fundamental choice in life: we can choose to see things from a positive perspective, or not. This attitude affects everything else in our lives.
So this said, I'd like to meet you and get to know you. Do send me an email!Thanks for reading!
Derek (w/m/d/p/no drg/no smk 41 N St Petersburg, Florida - USA) - A Renaissance ManThe spirit of a warrior, the heart of a poet, the mind of a teacher and the soul of a healer
Если я тебе нравлюсь, то я от тебя хотел бы получить письмо! - Я тебя не могу ждать навсегда!
"я помню чудное мгновение передо мной явилась ты как мимолётное вадение как ангел чистой красоты” –Пушкин
How would you describe your ideal partner?
She is affectionate and loving, and makes me feel perfect despite my infinite imperfections. She's also loyal, sensual and patient.
If you knew the world was going to end in 30 days, what would you do?
Spend it with my children in a place where there is peace and tranquility.
If you had 10 million dollars to spare, what would you do with it?
The last time I had 10 million dollars, I lost it, so I'd hope that should I have it again, I can keep it and so something productive with it. I've wanted to form a charitable foundation that helps to provide food for needy families (we have problems in America, too) and take a vacation to Russia with my children.
How often, and from whom do you ask advice?
I seek advice from those who have had success in pursuits in which I endeavor and desire success. I say this, "if you want to know how to cook, ask a chef!"
What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?
Confidence, ability, discipline, commitment, loyalty and integrity.
What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?
Loyalty and patience, as well as honesty and sincerity. Beauty is good, too. I also value a woman who is willing to tell me what she likes and dislikes.
What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?
I've had big success and big loss. The most prominent event was that I realized that I shouldn't measure myself and determine my self worth by my material success or failure and that I should measure myself by the positive contributions I make in the lives of others.
What is the best advice that you give to your children?
Work damn hard, read all the quality books you can, never quit and if you give your word, keep it.
What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?
My realization that everyone has unlimited abilities to bring about anything in life that they desire and are willing to commit to.
The last books that you read?
I've read many books, but a very good one is Passionate Minds by David Bodanis. It's the account of the love affair between the French "gadfly" Voltaire and his mistress Emilie du Chatelet. Emilie was brilliant and the French still use today her translation of Newton's Latin Principia.
What are your goals now?
To increase the amount of positive energy in the universe!
Whom do you admire?
People who truly love from their heart
Do you have a lot of friends?
Yes
What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?
Most men are pigs and misogynists and have no respect for women. It makes it hard for the decent men to be seen as decent men.
What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?
I accept women as one of the great mysteries of the world. No dislikes.
What would you like to change in yourself?
I would love to be 16 again and know what I know.
What are your weaknesses?
My faults are that I have too many faults. I don't know if there's enough room to list them all.
What are your strengths ?
I'm exceptionally capable and passionate about what I do. I'm also sincere and intelligent. Loyal as well.
How do friends view you?
As a man who gives his word and keeps it.
How do acquaintances view you?
The same way, but sometimes they are intimidated by me. I'm really a big "softie" on the inside.
What are your favourite games?
I don't play games
Who are your favourite writers and poets?
Sun Tzu, H G Wells, Robert Greene, Napolean Hill, Pushkin, Lermontov...too many to list!
What kinds of music do you like?
I'm a musician, so I like all of it. But If I'm making the choice, I'd select very good techno, alternative rock and progressive metal. Then Jazz, then the symphony.
What is your favourite food?
Fresh veggies and fruits and nuts - I'm nuts about nuts!!!
What are your favourite films?
Good question, but I don't have an answer
What is your favourite fairy-tale?
The story about the boy who cried wolf
What is your favourite activity or hobby?
Exercise, reading, family time, travel and quite time
What is your dream job?
I don't dream about work. Work is a means to an end. I dream about life.
Tell us about your dream partner.
She'll find me
Where do you want to live?
The entire world is my home
Do I enjoy gardening?
It's OK - if it is done for me
Do I enjoy grocery shopping?
I really enjoy it
Do I enjoy other types of Shopping?
I don't mind it
Do I enjoy cooking?
I love it
How often do I like to go out?
Every night
Do I enjoy dining out?
I love it
When it comes to money
I spend some and I save some
Describe myself at a party as a
Cruiser with intent
Keep my space
It's spic and span
Ideally I would like to live in a
beach house
Preference for pets
What type of television programs do I enjoy watching most?
Nature/wildlife, Educational, Documentary
I enjoy spending free time
Doing something athletic, Curling up with a good book, Having lunch with a friend, With family, Visiting a museum or gallery, Taking a class, Pursuing a hobby, Volunteering, Taking a walk, Among friends, In nature